October 2012

Mom, I Can’t Sleep: ADHD Sleep Problems

by Caroline on October 9, 2012

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Bubbles and M-bug share a few symptoms of ADHD, but in one of the most obvious ways, they’re very different. M-bug’s version of the disorder is called Inattentive ADHD, meaning that her primary issues are related to focus and attention span. Bubbles, on the other hand, exemplifies the “H” in ADHD, hyperactivity. She still has the focus and attention span issues, but is also extremely hyper and excitable, both mentally and physically. One side effect of this is that she has trouble sleeping.

M-bug has never had trouble sleeping. She sleeps long and hard, and just about anywhere:

ADHD Sleep Problems

Bubbles’ ADHD Sleep Problems

Bubbles has always needed a bit of help calming down to sleep, whether for a nap or at nighttime, and has had increasing problems falling asleep in the last three years or so. Granted, ADHD medications are stimulants, and can contribute to the problem, but this began long before she was taking meds, and she only takes one pill in the morning, so it’s pretty much worn off by bedtime. Hearing her singing to herself or playing at midnight is a regular occurrence at our house. She doesn’t get enough sleep, is very difficult to wake up, and once she is awake, she can be more hyper than anyone should have a right to be that early in the morning.

We’ve tried lots of different ways of helping her get to sleep faster. We’ve tried calming bedtime routines.  We’ve tried white noise and soothing music. We’ve tried melatonin pills. We’ve let her read for a bit before her bedtime. Occasionally she has a good night, but for the most part, none of these work consistently or individually.

This summer, when Bubbles came home from church camp, she told me about a girl there who had a sleep mask. It had “10 more minutes” stitched onto the front, and Bubbles thought it was the best thing since sliced bread. She begged and begged for me to take her to the dollar store to get one, sure that it would help her sleep. I held off, because I thought, “Surely this won’t make that big of a difference; nothing else has.” That, and I doubted that we would be able to find that exact mask, which she had her heart set on. But finally, after school started, we made a trip to the dollar store, and lo and behold! there was a sleep mask. It’s not the same as the one from camp, but it still has a cute phrase, “Beauty Rest,” emblazoned across it.

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Hey, if it works … Bubbles’ “Beauty Rest” sleep mask.

And you know what? While it doesn’t work every night, it does work better than any of the other things we’ve tried. Maybe it works because it physically shuts her off from everything that distracts her, even in the dark. As far as I’m concerned, anything that can help her sleep problems is welcome in our house.

Now, the only real issue with the sleep mask is that at night she can never remember where she put it that morning!

Do you have any remedies for sleepless nights?

*M-bug gave her blessing for these pictures to be published, even though she was embarassed about one in particular.  ;-)


 

Chaos In Review: Week of September 30

by Caroline October 8, 2012
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I think I’ll start posting a quick review of how things went in our household the week before. Sometimes I get so stuck looking at one big problem in our lives that I miss the successes in other areas, so it’s good for me to look at the big picture.  Also, that way I can […]

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School Schedule, Take Two!

by Caroline October 4, 2012
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Well, it should come as no surprise that I’ve yet again revised the girls’ school schedule. We were feeling a bit rushed and under the gun while following the first one, so we’re trying something closer to a block schedule. This new school schedule allows us to spend more time on science and social studies in […]

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Communicating with a Child with PDD-NOS

by Caroline October 2, 2012
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My daughter, M-bug, has been diagnosed with PDD-NOS, which stands for Pervasive Developmental Disorder – Not Otherwise Specified. It’s a really big name for a disorder on the austim spectrum. Children who have PDD-NOS usually have trouble both communicating and relating socially to the people around them. It can be tricky to diagnose, because it […]

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